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A Romantic Evening

                    from the GourmetSleuth

I am one of those women that finds virtue in cooking a nice meal at home. Just like the New Years holiday, the restaurants are jam-packed and the food and service quality goes down in direct relationship to the increase in price. Don't get me wrong, I love a great restaurant as much as the next person but after an evening of romance I prefer to be comfortable in my home for the "after dinner" festivities. If you are planning a romantic night "in" this Valentines,  then here are some suggestions to help make your evening a success.

It takes more effort to plan an elegant, romantic evening at home than it does to make a reservation and pick up candy and flowers at the grocery store--but the former will give you a sense of accomplishment and reward. Best of all, elegant does not have to mean expensive or too time consuming.

 

Romantic Meal Dining Tips
If you love to cook and have the time knock yourself out! But don’t spend so much time cooking and cleaning that you lose sight of the goal which is to have a romantic evening with your lover.

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Alcohol and Beverages

If you choose to drink, keep the amount of alcohol to a minimum (a glass or 2 of wine or champagne). Excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. Excellent alternatives are sparking juices such as Martinelli’s Sparkling Apple or Sparkling Apple-Cranberry cider. If you are in the U.S. and have a Trader Joe's in your area you will find a delicious variety of French Sparking Fruit Juices. For before dinner drinks try GourmetSleuth's own Key Lime Spritzer.

 

Our Meal Suggestion
Keep the meal flavorful and not too heavy. Overeating will most likely leave you feeling sleepy rather than erotic. The portion for the salmon main course is more than ample.  Unless you have large appetites you may prefer to split one entrée between the two of you.


Passion Fruit Champagne Cocktails
Exotic passion fruit enhances the traditional champagne cocktail.

Salmon and Rice Wrapped in Pastry With Dill Sauce
This is an elegant and not difficult main course. The presentation is sophisticated and the dill sauce is delicate and delicious.

Fresh Asparagus With Lemon & Butter (no recipe)
Steam the asparagus lightly and serve the sauce in separate small ramekins.  This is an excellent food to feed each other.  Use your fingers, pick up the asparagus, dip it in the sauce and feed your lover.

Chocolate Espresso Pots de Creme
Ah, the best of all worlds wrapped in one perfect dessert.  Our recipe features dark chocolate combined with espresso.  Serve this dessert in our perfect pots de creme cups.

French Press Coffee
Coffee is a natural stimulant that increases circulation and a perfect way to accent the end of your meal.  If you don't' own a French Press Coffee (
Cafetiere) now is a perfect time to buy one!   The press makes a wonderful tableside (or bedside) presentation and the coffee is full bodied and extremely flavorful.

 

After Dinner Treats
Drinks, dinner, and dessert is just a prelude to the main event of the evening.  You may want to skip the dessert course and have dessert in bed.  A wonderful selection of fresh fruit cleaned and cut into bite size pieces (such as grapes, strawberries, or mango) along with freshly whipped, sweetened cream, makes a perfect "in-bed" dinner finale.

 

Chocolate, Oysters and Other Aphrodisiacs
There is much speculation about the affects of certain foods as a "catalyst for love". Here is some information about aphrodisiacs from a medical point of view. Read about the stimulating benefits of chocolate.

 

More Recipe Suggestions
Fondue for two - Fondue can be delicious, playful and very romantic. It can also be very filling so make small amounts. Our article discusses all about this wonderful meal, including recipes.

Cosmopolitan Cocktails - Pink, pretty (and potent). A sexy Valentine's evening dinner drink.

Creme Brulee - Serve in pretty heart-shaped ramekins.




 

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Recipes for Love

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Passion Fruit Champagne cocktails
1 cup chilled passion fruit blend nectar
1/2 teaspoon Angostura bitters
1 cup chilled champagne or other sparkling white wine
4 fresh raspberries or small strawberries
1 orange slice, cut in half

Divide nectar and bitters between 2 chilled champagne flutes. Add champagne. Drop 2 berries into each drink. Garnish with orange.

 

Key Lime Spritzer
P
our tonic water into a "old fashion" glass filled with ice. Squeeze in the juice from a wedge of lime and place the wedge in the glass. For Valentines variation, thread 2 red maraschino cherries on a cocktail pick and add to the drink before serving.

 

A Fantasy Evening
My favorite Valentines Day surprise for my lover took place in one room of my then old (and slightly dilapidated) house. I converted the room into a French café. I covered each of the interior doors using white butcher paper, decorated to look like curtains. I moved the dining table into the room along with chairs. I even used a large piece of cardboard and used acrylic paints to create a fireplace with a mantle.

The table was set with a nice tablecloth, flowers, candles, and simple white dinnerware. In the fantasy I was the waitress, dressed in a very revealing white dress. I waited on my man "patron" and took care of his "every" need. Although it was very simple and very inexpensive, neither of us will ever forget that Valentines Day. All the props were things I had around the house. The only cost was for the food and wine

 

Other Resources
A humorous Valentines Day History from Salon.com

The Better Sex Diet by Lynn Fischer.  Offers suggestions to put the zing back in your love life through proper, low cholesterol cooking. 

 

Romance Preparations
The wonderful thing about the "basics" of life is that you can accomplish these tasks with as little or as much money as you have to spend. Here are some simple but effective tips to light the flames of your love life.

Clean the house  A gourmet meal served in a house that looks like it was just struck by Ghengis Kahn and his men, leaves much romance to be desired. A clean and orderly "nest" allows you to focus on the beauty of each other and your surroundings rather than the clutter and distractions of your everyday life.



Just Too Busy?
  If you are simply too busy to clean treat yourself and hire a cleaning service. Check the yellow pages or those weekly coupons for a local service company. For less than the price of a moderately priced "special" dinner out you can get the house cleaned up and ready for that special evening.

 

Fresh Flowers and Candles Put fresh flowers and candles in each room you'll be using including the kitchen, dining area, bathroom and bedroom.  Flowers bring beauty, fragrance, and color.  Depending on the part of the country you live in you may be able to pick flowers or blossoms from your yard.  Simple arrangements from materials in your garden can be every bit as lovely as the florist's variety. Votive candles are a great choice for safety, just in case you get distracted and forget to put them out before you get otherwise occupied.  If your flowers are fragrant select unscented candles so you don't get conflicting scents.

 

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